How to Help Your Aging Parents with Financial Planning

Mar 18, 2025

Middle-aged daughter hugging her aging parent from behind

Managing our own finances can be a challenge, but a vital thing we often overlook is understanding and navigating our aging parents’ financial planning too. As they move into retirement and beyond, their financial landscape can become complicated, making it helpful (or necessary) for us to step in.  

Here are some crucial areas to focus on: 

1. Understand their income

Understanding your parents’ income sources is the first step in comprehending their financial status. This includes pensions, Social Security, retirement savings, rental income, and other assets. Knowing where the money is coming from can help you anticipate potential issues, such as a fluctuating income or the need for additional support. 

2. Discuss their estate plan

Having a conversation about your parents’ estate plans can be difficult, but it’s essential. This includes understanding their will, any trust arrangements, and their wishes regarding the division of assets.  

It’s also important to know who they’ve named as executors or trustees. Having these conversations early can prevent misunderstandings and legal complications down the line. 

Review “Top Ten Common Estate Planning Mistakes” for more insights.  

3. Plan for healthcare costs

Healthcare costs can skyrocket in old age, and it’s essential to understand how these expenses will be covered. 

It may be worth discussing these options and understanding what healthcare costs could look like in the future.

4. Be aware of potential financial abuse

Elderly individuals are often targets for financial scams and abuse. It’s important to regularly check in on your parents’ financial transactions and be vigilant for any signs of suspicious activity. This can include unexplained bank withdrawals, sudden changes in their financial condition, or new, unknown “friends” who show an unusual interest in their finances. 

5. Consider a financial advisor

A trusted financial advisor can be an invaluable resource for managing your parents’ finances. They can help with everything from planning for retirement income to advising on estate assets and managing investment portfolios.  

If your parents don’t already have a financial advisor, consider helping them find one. Remember, it’s critical that this advisor is a fiduciary, meaning they’re legally obligated to act in your parents’ best interests. 

Financial planning for aging parents

Navigating your aging parents’ finances can be a complex task, but it’s a critical part of ensuring their comfort and security in their golden years. By taking the time to understand their financial situation, planning for future costs, and seeking professional advice, you can help guide them through this stage of life with confidence and peace of mind. 

To get support with your aging parents’ financial planning, reach out to an advisor using the form below.

Adapted from: “The Complex Waters of Aging Parents’ Finances.” FMeX. 2023. https://abm.emaplan.com/ABM/MediaServe/MediaLink?token=23776a315f9f4fe792af668b0a14ebe9 

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